Love creates an expansion of our life energy together with a feeling of love, joy and belongingness.
The
Silent Revolution of the Heart
The
Challenge for the 21st century
From
fear to love, from darkness to light and from separation to wholeness
The
challenge for the 21st century is The Silent Revolution of the Heart. It is not
a revolution within an organization or a land in the traditional sense with
violence, madness and blood shed. It is a revolution in human
consciousness.
The
Silent Revolution of the Heart is an inner revolution from fear to love, from
darkness to light and from separation to wholeness.
In
society today there exists a deep split between the inner and outer world, between
intellect and intuition, between male and female qualities, between rest and
activity and between outer knowledge and inner wisdom. There is a rapid
technological development in the society, but we seem to forget the most
important factor: our self.
Humanity
as a whole is in-between power and the heart in its psychological and spiritual
development process towards spiritual maturity. The next step for humanity as a
whole is to realize that real power is love and compassion.
The
power chakra is the centre of the ego, the separated sense of "I".
The power chakra is about control, power and dominance over other people. A
person who is on the development level of the power chakra wants to change
other people, but he does not want to change himself.
Ordinary
relationships are often power relationships, which is a fight and struggle
between the partners needs and mine. Often the partner in a power relationship
has the same strength to develop the power chakra.
The
society is created out of the ego, and the need of the ego to create a
hierarchy with power, status, respect, position, norms, roles and conformity.
Many people in the West live in the power chakra, and are occupied with
competing with others, to prove that they are somebody important, and finding their
place in the hierarchy.
During
the 20th Century has the psychological development level of humanity been on
the awareness level of the power chakra? The focus of humanity has been on
power, dominance, position, money and control over energy resources. We are
technologically developed and this technology governs the development of the
society, but this technology is at the same time destroying the earth. Energy
resources are also a distinguishing theme in the power balance between
countries.
Acting
aggressively has its roots in fear, judgments and insecurity. Violence and
aggressiveness is about control and dominance over another person. To judge and
to be loving is two sides of the same coin. Judgments about another person are
really about yourself. When we stop judging others and ourselves, our hearts
opens. The heart is a healer that transforms fear to love, judgments to
acceptance and separation to wholeness. The heart heals.
The
21st century means an inner awakening. It means a time to grow up. Many people
talk about spirituality, meditation and inner development but it does not seem
to change their lives. Our spiritual development depends on our commitment to
our own development. We can use our free will to take on the challenge of life
to grow or we can choose not to grow. This is the freedom that life gives us
and it our own responsibility, but it seems that it is few people that accept
life's challenge to grow.
The
21st century represents a choice between the separation of ego and the vision
of the heart. The silent revolution of the heart is a shift in human
consciousness from the short-sighted perspective of the ego of "me"
and "mine" to the focus of the heart on love and the needs of the
other. It is a shift in consciousness from the short-sighted separation of the
ego to the vision of the heart.
When
we follow the way of the ego, the path of endless desires, it leads to
struggle, conflict, exhaustion and separation from the Whole. The way of the
heart is about learning to listen to our heart, to our inner source of love,
joy, truth and wisdom. It is to be in a deep harmony with Existence.
When
our heart is closed it creates an isolated and lonely feeling together with the
attitude: "Nobody loves me", "nobody cares about me" and
"life is a struggle", which makes us not see the love that is all
around us.
A
silent revolution of the heart happens when we start to care about another
person, and it is a joy to put the needs of the other person before our own
needs. It is on the awareness level of the heart that we begin to develop the
sensitivity and awareness that makes us care about another person. The heart
operates from the premises: I am responsible and only love works.
Love
is to eat pizza with our beloved partner even though we hate pizza.
Our
heart is the door to unconditional love both for ourselves and others. Our
heart is really always open, but our judgments about ourselves and others keep
it closed. When we stop judging ourselves and others, our heart begins to open.
The way to healing is to learn to love and accept ourselves unconditionally. It
means to embrace both our positive and negative sides with love and
understanding. It means to learn to love everything that we find within
ourselves.
We
have been taught to love others, but not to love ourselves. But how can we love
others without loving ourselves? The ABC of love is that we first need to
learn to love ourselves before we can love anybody else.
Trust
is a prerequisite for love. Without trust, love is without depth. It is like a
plastic flower, instead of an alive, fresh and fragrant rose. Even if some
people will let us down and make us sad and disappointed, it is no reason to
let it undermine our basic trust in life. It is better to allow some people to
let us down than not allow our basic trust in life to develop. Many people are
so sleeping and unconscious that they really do not know what they are doing.
They make us disappointed even if they do not really mean to. Even if we feel
hurt, disillusioned and disappointed with people, see if you can give them love
and understanding. A criterion for spiritual growth is that we begin to give
love, rather than needing love.
Exactly
as the rhythm of in-breathes and out-breathes of the physical body, the heart
has also two poles: to give love and to receive love. Certain people are easier
to give love to and other people are easier to be open to receive love. But to
allow our love to become whole, we need to learn both to give love and to
receive love.
Animals
are great teachers in friendship and unconditional love. One of my course
participants commented in a course, "I prefer animals before people,
because animals cannot hurt me in the same way that people can. I myself still
find it difficult to really trust that I am loved as I am. Even if I am aware
about this, there is still a small part of myself that wants to contract, and
which does not really trust that I am loved as I am and that life takes care of
me. I find it easier to be present for others than to allow others to be
present for me."
Love
and fear are two sides of the same coin. In the absence of love fear arises. In
the light of love fear disappears, like when you turn the light on in a dark
room. Fear is a contraction of our life energy together with an attitude of
loneliness and isolation. Love creates an expansion of our life energy together
with a feeling of love, joy and belongingness.
Love
is the strongest power there is. There is no stronger force than love. Love is
pure magic. Love transforms people without really doing anything. The sheer
presence of love transforms people. There is nothing more holy than love, since
love makes people whole.
Love
accepts a person as he is. Love creates the freedom, which allows a person to
be himself. Love creates the relaxation, which allows a person to relax into
his inner being, into his authentic self. Love allows us to appreciate the
beautiful being that we already are. Love allows a person to discover his true
individuality.
Love
is not an exclusive relationship with another person; love is a quality of our
inner being. It is to discover the source of love deep within ourselves, which
is our true nature.
In
the depth of our heart, we already know that we are perfect as we are. In the
depth of our inner being, we already know that life is perfect as it is.
It
is on the awareness level of the heart that we begin to understand that we are
not separate from life. We begin to understand that we are not small separate
islands in a large ocean, but that life is one and that we are all small parts
of the same whole. It is on the awareness level of the heart that we begin to
understand what is important and meaningful in life. We begin to understand
that life is about sharing, rather than hoarding, that life is about giving,
rather than taking.
It
is when we open our heart that we discover a sense of unity in love with other
people, with the trees, with nature, with the sea and with the blue sky.
This
is the silent revolution of the heart.
The
human heart is the solution to the problems of the world.
The
human heart contains all the answers.
The
human heart has the capacity to expand and embrace the whole earth.